The 3 Easy Steps To Get What You Want Through Hypnosis

August 18th, 2008 by Jay

What if I told you that using hypnosis mind control is easy? Would you believe me? Don’t worry, this isn’t the opening line of a pitch for some book that I’m trying to sell you. I’m not selling a single thing! I just want to show you that hypnosis is not as hard to learn as you most likely believe.

Its not your fault though! Your mind has been filled with false images of what hypnosis is portrayed to be. As I wrote in a past article, hypnosis is nothing more than the unconscious mind sneaking in when the conscious mind is totally occupied! If you can occupy the conscious mind, you will learn to have control over the unconscious mind! Its that simple!

I know you’re thinking that I made it sound much easier than it really is. In all honesty, thats basically it though! I don’t know of another way that I can explain it! Sure, there is a lot of practice and learning that goes into achieving this amazing power, but its just a matter of how much you really want it!

One of the best ways to get what you want through hypnosis is by using the art of conversational hypnosis. In the last post that I added to this blog, I talked about my friend Mark, and how conversational hypnosis literally changed his life! You can read more about how hypnosis changed Mark’s life here.

The 3 Steps To MASTERING conversational hypnosis

Conversational hypnosis has three basic principles. If you can master these principles, you will be able to change your life in a similar way as Mark!

Step 1 – Build Rapport

Imagine you are going to your first day at a new job. Do you feel those butterflies in your stomach? You are probably nervous about a lot of things, but the biggest worry on your mind is “What if I don’t like my co-workers? What if they don’t like me?”

You feel this way because it’s in our nature to want to feel welcomed. We want people to like us! We want to fit in! Now, imagine how welcomed you would feel, if one of your new co-workers was immediately very friendly to you, and you already found out that she has a lot of stuff in common with you?

Wouldn’t you instantly feel better, knowing that you have someone that you can talk to? Isn’t it a much better feeling when you have someone that can be on the same level as you mentally?

Building rapport is all about making someone believe that you think just like them! Its kind of like building trust, but just because you trust someone doesn’t mean you will make the same kind of decisions in life!

Step 2 – Create Confusion

This is where the skill comes in with conversational hypnosis mind control. It takes a lot of practice to learn this skill, but you can do it if you put your mind to it!

Have you ever been in an argument with your significant other, and by the end of it, you were agreeing with what they had to say, or they were agreeing with what you had to say? Well, somewhere in that argument, confusion was created. Someone said something that made the other person stop and think! The unconscious mind took over for a brief second, and told your conscious mind to think about what was being said more closely.

Step 3 – Once Confusion Sets In, Offer Suggestions

Lets go back to the last scenario, but go more into more detail about the argument. Imagine the argument is about how much steak to buy for the next family cook out. Its not a major argument, but you think you should buy a few more than they are suggesting.

You argue back and forth about how many people are going to be there, and how many people will actually want to eat steak. Then suddenly, you say “Well, I know I’m going to want to eat two, so I’m sure someone else will too”. You just completed step two! You created confusion!

Now, is the time to get it your way by offering a suggestion. You could say something like “We should buy more just in case, its better to be safe than sorry! If someone doesn’t want a steak, we will just put it in the unclaimed in the freezer”.

Now, since the conscious mind is already confused, and looking for a way to get back on track, you throw that suggestion at the unconscious mind.

The Power Of Conversational Hypnosis Mind Control

I wont even finish the scenario above, because I know you can figure out what the end result will probably be! That was a very simple scenario, and I hope that I gave you a little taste of the power of conversational hypnosis.

Remember, you will have to work for anything worth having! This ability is definitely worth having, so even though I called this post the three easy steps, it will take a lot of work to master each one of those steps.

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